Help I'm A Young Crossdresser!
By Cathy L Anderson
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I don't mean being a martyr or making yourself miserable by helping other people all the time. No, I'm definitely saying being happy yourself. I'm just suggesting that part of true happiness is going to involve helping other people. Keep your options open
However old people are, they feel like they know everything. Everybody is like that.
If you look back to yourself 5 years earlier, it's clear you know more now. The same will be true 5 years from now: you'll know more, and, looking back to now, you might smile to think how confident you were and how much you didn't know.
That is one reason to be cautious about making limiting decisions. A few transsexuals report being *completely* certain they are a girl from early childhood; but more often, transgenders merely have the intense desire to be a girl. Or some look at their female fantasies, and from these they infer "apparently I am a female and not a male."
In the first case--utter certainty--then perhaps it makes sense to pursue Hormone Replacement Therapy and Sexual Reassignment Surgery. But in the other cases that must be strongly questioned.
It used to be that only the first group were considered candidates for a sex change. But gradually the standards have become increasingly lax, thanks mainly to a social climate of laxness. Now some people embark on a change of sex just on a whim.
That just doesn't make sense. Human nature is such that each person has many conflicting desires. One has to balance these desires. When you feel you want to be a girl, that may seem like it's coming from your very core. However, in a week or two, the wish may be weaker, and other aspects of your personality may be dominating. The fact that a wish might seem very strong does not mean that is who you really are. It's just one wish among many parts of your personality.
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