Help I'm A Young Crossdresser!
By Cathy L Anderson
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Young crossdressers may feel pressured to use feminizing hormones, knowing that the earlier they use them, the more complete the feminization will be.
A big problem is that these hormones can and do cause infertility. You may not have an interest in "fathering" children. But as you get older that feeling might develop.
Further, you might be mainly attracted to girls. If you adopt a female gender, possibly you could find a compatible woman somewhere. But in truth, your odds of finding someone are much better if you have a male gender.
Think of it this way. What attracts you to a girl? Most likely you like a pretty, feminine girl, not an unattractive, very "butch" type. The same works for girls. Most are attracted to male-looking guys, and not attracted to guys who look like and dress like girls.
One of the advantages with being a guy, in fact, is that you can meet this need of girls. You can be her "man", her protector and provider. Self-destructive behavior Many aspects of the TG and gay scene are plainly self-destructive. Consider clubs, for instance. People to go nightclubs where everybody's smoking and drinking. The drag shows don't even start until midnight, and people don't get home until 3:00 or 4:00 am. It takes days to recover. And some people do this more than once a week!
This kind of stuff is really dumb. Morality is not obsolete So regardless of what you choose--to be male, female or both; to be hetero-, gay, or both-- you need to chose in a sincere way and with an aim to do the right thing. These days people are brainwashed to believe "it's all relative; there is no ultimate right or wrong." That's a self-serving view, used by people to justify their own choices.
Morality is not obeying a set of rules. It's making a concerted effort to find out what is the right thing and to do it. The bigger part of that is recognizing and avoiding self-deception. Counseling Counseling can help. Yeah, I know what you're saying--counseling is crock! Well, it certainly can be that. But there are a few good counselors.
But counselling really works when the energy is coming from you. You have to genuinely want to understand yourself. It takes effort. The counselor is just a tool for you to use to help understand yourself.
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