Help I'm A Young Crossdresser!
By Cathy L Anderson
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There are many bad counsellors, but there are good ones, too. You have to be prepared to screen several counsellors to find a good one. If one treats you like an object and not a person, find another.
One thing you can always do is to read a lot. There's almost no limit to how much you can learn about yourself just by reading--though few people take advantage of this.
Reading can bring you to the gate of understanding, which a counsellor can help you pass through. But without reading, you don't get to the gate, and counselling can't do much except give you emotional support (although sometimes that alone is needed).
In fact, reading is probably more important than counseling, but doing both is better still. Enjoy life Well, just so I don't seem like a wet blanket, I want to emphasize that's it good and important to enjoy life. It's true, I limit my crossdressing to part time. But I make a point to enjoy myself while I'm doing it.
There's lot's of other things to enjoy too--fresh air and exercise, a beautiful day, friends, music, etc.
Sometimes we blow our problems out of proportion. Enjoying the good things in life helps us get them back into perspective.
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