PASSING IN PUBLIC

Venturing out in public as the feminine you for the first time is nerve wracking as I well remember so from personal experience this is my advice. Build confidence by going window shopping after sunset and don't wear high heels which make it difficult to walk. Your aim on this initial expedition is to blend in which if you are in a busy place will be easy as you'll observe most people are too busy with their own agenda or mobile (cell) phone to pay much notice providing you do nothing out of the ordinary like falling over, wearing outlandish or inappropriate clothing. Think of the last time you went out and see if you can remember anyone on your journey? If they weren't drunk or had a wooden leg you wouldn't have given them a second glance so use your first few window shopping trips to build your self-confidence and remember stick to busy places, women avoid walking in isolated places in the dark because they rightfully feel vulnerable. Blending in is your main objective for it takes a lot of practise before you will be able to walk, talk act and behave instinctively as a genetic female. Observe closely how women dress normally for it is totally differently to how they do so for a special night out, too much make-up, short skirts and over-dressing will be a sure giveaway. Remember when you drive NOT to wear high heels, women keep a pair of flats in their car as heels make driving difficult. If you are going to drive ensure that your car is in roadworthy condition and that all of the lights work as any fault with a car will attract the attention of police patrols So here's a quick checklist before you venture out: * Do not overdo the makeup * Do not wear ostentatious jewellery * Wear a wig that looks natural for your age & is near to your own hair colour * Wear ordinary clothes appropriate to where you are going & your age * Do not wear high heels, walking ius difficult & they present a trip hazard * Ensure if you are driving that your vehicle is fully roadworthy * Avoid any conversation in early forays * Keep to busy areas * Look at you mobile (cell) phone or pretend to use it if you become nervous * Remember like you, everyone else is engrossed in their own world and unless you do something unusual no-one will give you a second glance I have lived my dream full time for 35 years and now would find it hard to act or speak like a man but it took time and I was very nervous when I first ventured out. Self-confidence is developed bit-by-bit and everytime you go out you will gain it. Of course if you are a crossdresser then live is much easier as you can join a TV social group which will have a safe meeting place but please still remember the tips regarding driving a vehicle. Fortunately these days in most countries people are much more tolerant of individuality and T-Girls are no longer subject to the prejudices of the past so be yourself for that is the way to be truly happy.   Best wishes from your fellow T-Girl, Stephanie

HOW TO FEMINISE YOUR VOICE

advice from our transsexual founder

 

When you reached puberty your voice will have 'broken' giving you a manly deeper voice but despite this you can feminise the way you speak and this post will you you how to feminise your voice. Fennella Fielding, a famous UK personality has a deep husky voice which sounds really sexy. First of all do not try and squeak to a higher octave, you will just sound 'camp' instead you need to speak from your stomach rather than from your lungs Practise this by placing your hand on your tummy, taking a deep breath and consciously press down ensuring that it deflates as you speak. This takes some time to master but in time will lead to a 'breathy' sounding feminine voice. Woman have a different way of talking involving gestures so be observant, watch and observe carefully to follow the lilt of their sentences and how they end them. Women are very touchy-feely with female friends but will react very differently to men according to whether they are strangers, acquaintances or friends. Women are generally more reserved and will not seek to dominate a conversation, when they are nervous they will tend to play with their hair, earrings etc If you look feminine then it is much easier to be convincing but the telephone call is much more difficult and the person will tend to make an instant decision on your gender according to your voice. You must sound confident and introduce yourself before saying anything else, so if you answer a call simply state your name "Hi Jennifer Carter speaking" this tells them they are speaking to a woman. If at any point anyone addresses you as 'Sir' confidently correct them and they will apologise and adjust their mindset For those of you serious about sounding feminine especially if you are going to live as a woman then we have a speech therapy training course comprised of CD's and a tutorial which you can obtain For full details of our Speech Therapy Course - please click here Whether you make use of this course or not, you need to observe women in minute detail, the way they air-kiss when meeting close friends, the way they gently shake hands, the way they move their hands whilst speaking in differing situation.

 

LOOK - LISTEN - LEARN then practise in front of a mirror until it becomes second nature. Someone asked me recently to speak as a man which I was 35 years ago and I couldn't remember how to!!! 35 years of living as a woman has made me fluent & confident in the ways of femininity so it come naturally without any conscious thought. Any specific questions you may have on this subject please feel free to email me at steffie@transformation.co.uk



 EXTRAS THAT BOOST MALE TO FEMALE TRANSFORMATION

Over the past 31 years Doctor Temperli, the worlds leading endocrinologist has worked tirelessly to produce ever effective female hormone products using the latest technological delivery systems. We now have transdermal creams, gels, serums, atomisers, suppositories, tablets and capsules but whichever strength or type of medication you choose you will not get maximum benefits and development without using these 2 complementary treatments If you are choosing transdermal treatments, those that deliver doses via absorption through the skin (creams, gels, serums, patches & atomisers) then you must take the time and trouble to remove the natural oils that is produced by your body that impedes the transfer of feminising hormones We produce a special hypo-allergenic Transdermal Skin Prep which you need to thoroughly use by rubbing the treatment area with TSK on cotton wool - you will actually see the residue that it removes even of you have just showered. This simple & cheap procedure more than doubles the skin absorption of all transdermal hormone treatment. A 3- month supply is just £39 When you reached puberty as a male your testes and adrenal glands start flooding your body with the prime male androgen (testosterone) and this is what triggers male pattern hair growth (facial & body), the deepening of your voice and the fertility allowing you to impregnate a female to produce a baby. Obviously male androgens (testosterone) have the exact opposite effect to that of oestrogen (estrogen) so if circulating your body at high strengths will cancel out a large percentage of any female hormones that you take. Without taking a androgen (testosterone) suppressant much of the feminine development you desire will take much, much longer. Remembering it takes genetic females between 3-4 years to achieve full feminine development without androgen impediment do you really want to double that? Our exclusive range of anti-androgens (male hormone suppressants) have been formulated to ensure that you start on a level playing field, just like a girl does. The comprehensive range of delivery methods mirrors that of oestrogen allowing you to match your 2 products complementary treatment easily

INSTANT REMINDER

Transdermal Hormones PLUS Transdermal Skin Prep PLUS Anti-Androgen = BEST PRACTICE Tablets, Capsules, Nasal Sprays, Suppositories, Oral Drops PLUS Anti-Androgen = BEST PRACTICE

SIX OF THE BEST TOP TRANSGENDER TIPS

TIP 1 Don't compare yourself to beautiful female models

Most genetic women do not look like famous film stars or gorgeous models so be realistic as you will want to blend in which means looking like most other women.

Tip 2 Start observing how women behave

Women are bought up to act differently to men so you need to closely observe how they walk, sit, get into cars &are more tactile, touch their hair & earrings. Watch how they greet friends & starngers, how they gesticulate when talking. How they hold a wine glass or cup. Their voice inflections differ, much less assertively so listen carefully and remember to develop a husky voice by breathing from your stomach and avoid a squeaky falsetto tone. Our Speech Therapy Tutorial CD set and Deportment DVD are a really good investment for perfecting all of this.

TIP 3 Dress appropriately for your age & occasion

Women do not wear tiara's to go shopping!! Neither do middle aged females go our in micro-miniskirts and blonde hair down to their waist so first choose an outfit that is appropriate for your age and then remember that women dress completely differently for different occasions so in daytime when shopping they are unlikely to wear much makeup and will be dressed casually in shorts or trousers dependant on the weather which is another determinate. Now when party time comes it is a different world with high heels, sparkly dresses and full makeup with lot's of bling.

TIP 4 Get in Shape

The perfect hourglass shape is what women strive for and you can achieve this quite simply even if you are not taking hormones using silicone breasts, a corset that laces and narrows your waist then hip & bum shapers giving you an instant male to female transformation. All items feature on our site.

TIP 5 Remember to avoid the dead giveaways

Hairy arms, legs & hands are a complete no-no so either use our anti-androgen products to permanently resolve the problem or shave, wax or cover-up. Your hands are likely to be larger than the average women's but long nice nails can distract from this, Likewise a fashionable scarf can hide a prominent Adam's apple. Do not wear thick make-up in daylight and ensure you disguise your beard shadow with a specialist product - see website for details.

TIP 6  Stay Safe

As a man you are relatively safe out and about but all women are vulnerable and trans women especially so (statistics show trans women are more at risk by a factor of 40!!!). Do not draw attention to yourself, avoid any isolated places especially at night. If you think men are observing you get out your mobile and pretend to make a call until they have passed. You cannot run in high heels and tight skirts so dress sensibly and stay safe.

Less than 500 people have seen this! and you & I will never see it.

 

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Every astronaut who has spoken of their journey highlight one common view.

 

From space planet earth by day is a bright colourful but fragile-looking object set against the backdrop of totally black infinity.

 

The colours of the planet cross the entire rainbow spectrum and earth is the most colourful planet ever seem even by the Hubble telescope. Their experience instils in them a sense of wonderment and appreciation of just how unique this place we call home is.

 

If we look at the world from their perspective we can then celebrate the diversity in nature that gives the planet it’s rainbow colours. Most of us are also animal lovers and we value the diversity in our pets, dogs and cats come in all shades of shapes and colours.

 

So now we know that diversity is what makes us happy, yet when it comes to humans some people only seem to like people exactly like themselves and are intolerant of others on the grounds of colour, ethnicity & gender.

 

Gender and sex are two completely different things. In most people, your brain and body are aligned before birth. Yet just like babies are born with physical defects which we correct medically.

 

For transgender people, the brain and body are misaligned so they have the brain of one gender, but the body of another. Over many years either using electrical shock treatment or counselling attempts have been made to reprogram the brain in line with the body, all of which have been unsuccessful, leaving the ONLY option to sync the two by altering the body.

 

Unfortunately, society has been slow to recognise this as a true medical procedure and have therefore heaped more pressure on those facing this life-changing option. As a result the rates of suicide of transgender are unacceptably high as are levels of mental illness brought on by the real fears for their future. My parents disowned me when I transitioned 35 years ago and they died without any reconciliation which pain I still carry. Although society has become more aware of the issue the physical transition still causes immense problems for most who do especially in the areas of family, employment and social interaction.

 

I must admit that I came within a whisker of suicide after years of trying to put off the inevitable decision yet, fortunately, I took the decision to undergo full male to female gender reassignment surgery following hormone treatment. The cost was high, I lost my family, so-called friends and a lucrative job. Adjusting to living on benefits was difficult but at last, I was transfused with a sense of contentment, really liking myself for the very first time.

 

Fortunately for me, I met a wealthy man who agreed to finance Transformation as a not-for-profit venture to help those who wish to transition from male to female. Trans people may want different levels of male to female transformation, transvestites (TV’s) may want an instant reversible convincing change which we cater for with silicone breasts, realistic vagina panties, wigs, in fact, everything they need. There are others who simply want to grow their own female breasts and our site is where you can find female hormones that will fulfil this need. Others may want a total transition but stop short of surgery (often referred to as shemales or ladyboys) and there again we have male to female hormones on our site.

 

Transformation is my ‘baby’ I have loved and cherished it since it was born way back in 1984. I have spent a lot of my husband's money for the research and development (R&D) in financing Doctor Temperli the world-renown.

 

Leading endocrinology (hormone) expert

 

endocrinologist (hormone expert) and he has developed a range of cutting edge feminising hormones. The female hormone delivery options now mean that anyone of any age & with almost any medical condition can find one that is effective and safe to use.

 

I am the living proof of what can be accomplished and as the world’s longest established transgender specialist we know how to help you to fulfil your dream. Please don’t be nervous or afraid, we offer totally confidential help and support throughout the process and you can consult Dr. Temperli for free advice on medical issues or me on the practical ones.

 

The first step is always the hardest but also every day you delay is a day of happiness & contentment lost forever.

 

Stephanie x

 



I founded Transformation way back in 1984 after I had encountered so many problems obtaining in obtaining feminising products that were designed for convincing male-to-female makeovers whether for crossdressing or for transsexuals. Hormone therapy back then was pretty primitive carrying with it many unwanted side-effects and were unsuitable unless you were young and in perfect health. Fortunately I was introduced to Doctor Temperli, the world's pre-eminent expert on hormones (endocrinologist) during a visit to Switzerland and after I told him of my vision he agreed to work with me to develop a comprehensive range of male-to-female transforming hormone products that would provide a safe and effective treatment for anyone whatever their age or medical condition. 31 years later we are able to fulfil this ambition with a variety of strengths and delivery systems, one combination of which is perfect for you whatever your personal ambition. From TVs' who desire small breasts and sensitive nipples all the way to the other end of the transgender rainbow where they seek gender reassignment, we have the combination of hormone therapy that will not only deliver the results but allow you to control the level of feminisation you attain and then switch to a lower dosage to maintain that level. [caption id="attachment_1996" align="alignleft" width="200"] Our founding male to female transsexual Stephanie Anne Lloyd[/caption] Our advice is free, your order is dispatched the next working day securely packed with no clue as to what your parcel contains either using UPS or The Royal Mail and every product you select comes with a 100% 'no quibble' money back guarantee, that's how confident we are after seeing the results of thousands of customers all over the world have achieved which demonstrate just how safe and effective our unique range of hormones are. If you have spent years struggling with indecision then you are not alone, I did too and whilst you may want a different outcome to the one I chose we are here to support you every step of the way. As a not-for-profit venture we are here for you in every respect as we have been for the past 31 years so take my hand and start the journey to realise your dream. My very best wishes, Stephanie Anne Lloyd Transformations Transsexual Founder

Our transsexual founder Stephanie Anne Lloyd has not had an easy life. She was born in 1946 as Keith Michael Hull to parents who were Jehovah’s Witnesses so nothing about her life was easy.

 

After pouring herself into a career she made it as a man all the way up to director of a UK FTSE 100 company with 6,000 employees. She seemed to have it all, a beautiful wife, 3 children, big house, luxury lifestyle yet the nagging from her inner self led to her giving it all up. Stephanie is a true transsexual who could only fight the inevitable for so long. Her stark choice – suicide or admit she was a male to female transsexual & undergo hormone therapy & gender reassignment surgery.

 

At the age of 30 she walked away from everything, resulting in her being totally alone except for a rescue dog called Sheba. Disowned by her parents, shunned by her family & so-called friends. Penniless but at last at peace as a M2F transsexual she came up with establishing a not-for-profit company and called it ‘Transformation’. Her luck changes when a multi-millionaire replied to her advertisement for financial backing making her dream of helping others a reality. This was in 1984 when Stephanie became our transsexual founder and Transformation was born.

 

Stephanie went on to marry her multi-millionaire backer and alongside building Transformation and developing a specialist range of products played an active part in her now husbands supermarket and hotel chains.

 

Having a transsexual founder who understands all the issues faced by both transsexual and transvestites puts Transformation is a unique position of being able to provide not just medical advice but practical answers from someone who has actually experienced everything you will. No-one other than someone who has actually lived through it understands the mental and practical problems & can realistically provide practical solutions.

 

At the age of 69 she still works full time within Transformation ensuring continued research & development and the personal touch is central to her dedicated team. The fact that the average length of service for Team Transformation’s members is 20 years demonstrates their dedication and loyalty to Stephanie’s inspirational leadership. After opening 9 shops, producing hundreds of specialist magazines & DVD’s she shoes no signs of slowing down and produces our weekly blog and Twitter feed plus many of our Facebook postings.

 

Stephanie is bubbly with seemingly inexhaustible energy and enjoys what she does as is obvious to everyone who meets. She was one of the first in the UK to undergo gender reassignment surgery and certainly the most notorious with acres of newspaper and TV coverage she is well grounded and used the opportunity to campaign successfully for the right for transsexuals to have their birth certificates amended.

 

Our transsexual founder has lived her feminine dream for 35 years and there is no one more qualified to give you advice on any related topic and she does this all for free. While others seek to sell you tips and guidance which they have no experience of you can get it all from Stephanie and it will always be free.

 

 80% of every product we sell is unique and made in our own latex factory or developed in Doctor Temperli’s laboratory, exclusive to Transformation which is why we are able to provide a 100% money-back guarantee on everything we provide.

 

Together with Doctor Temperli, the worlds leading endocrinology (hormone) expert she has tirelessly worked (and poured much of her husband's fortune) into cutting edge medical technology forming the basis of the most effective range of feminising hormones which become available from October 2015.

 

If you have never read our transsexual founder's incredible life story which has more ups and downs than a roller coaster then you can do so for free either online or you can download it (again for free) in PDF format.